How To Love A Child Who Won’t Love You Back.

#TBT- Season 2, Episode 14- The Honestly Speaking Parenting Podcast

For the next 4 weeks, leading up to our re-launch of the podcast (with the brand new name of The Honestly Adoption Podcast) we’re sharing some of our favorite past episodes as a #tbt!

It’s a question we receive several times a week from people all over the country. “How do I love a child who keeps pushing me away, and could care less about me or my family?” We, along with our co-host Nicole Goerges, are right in the middle of this trench.

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That first real hug. Hearing “I love you mom,” and knowing she means it. Watching him participate peacefully with the rest of the family. Having her not melt down when dad puts a gentle hand on her shoulder. These are all things that most parents are accustomed to on a daily basis with their children. They’re normal, everyday, functioning activities. But when your child has come from a traumatic past, bounced from home to home through foster care before coming to yours, or been adopted out of an abusive experience, these are moments you cherish more than gold.

In today’s episode of Honestly Speaking we discuss this openly and share some practical advice on navigating the tricky waters of reactive attachment disorder.

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Notes and quotes from the show.

One of our favorite things from Honestly Speaking is that every time we record an episode, we learn from one another. We always walk away feeling empowered from the discussion. It makes this show worth it but it also has us excited every week. This episode was no different. Here are some of our favorite quotes…

Did you learn something new today? Were you enlightened or challenged? We would love to hear some of your thoughts. What were some of your favorite quotes? Click here and share with us.

Resources and links.

As we often do, we receive lots of messages asking where you can find resources. The best thing we can share is to spend some time Googling “Reactive Attachment Disorders” in your specific area. You will find thousands of outlets. We will share one we found to be helpful…

We love the adoptive, foster, and special needs community because there is camaraderie and connection. If you’re in the trench of parenting a child with attachment issues, you’re not alone. We would love to connect with you through our Facebook Page, over email, or in the comment section below. Don’t be a stranger!

Question: Are you in the trenches of parenting a child with attachment issues? Share your story with us in the comment section below. You can leave a comment by clicking here.

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