‘Twas The Day After New Years…

A Manifesto For The Worn-Out Foster Or Adoptive Parent!

While we can’t tell you what’s on our New Year’s resolution list (because we don’t really have one), we can definitely tell you what’s not- Sleep! Welcome to 2017. Here’s to hopefully getting more rest this year…but probably not!

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‘Twas the day after New Year’s,
and all through the house
not a creature was stirring,
we’d just trapped the last mouse.

Dishes and dirty laundry strewn here and there,
in hopes that our teenagers would begin to care.

The children were nestled all snug in their beds,
with white noise machines humming next to their heads.
Dad in his slippers, I still in my clothes
had just settled down to hopefully doze.

The Must-Have Characteristics Of A Strong Support System [Podcast]

Season 1, Episode 8- The Honestly Speaking Parenting Podcast

We’ve often been asked how we made it through 9 years of foster parenting and 14 years as adoptive parents. Our answer is simple: We have a great support system of people who help keep us going. But how do you find a support system like this?

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“You’re going to be alright…this is going to be alright,” our friend said to us. “I know it feels like a dead-end street but there’s hope. I’m here for you!”

She was right. More importantly, she was there. Those were two things we were certain of. In our darkest moment on the journey, she looked at us with eyes of compassion, a spirit that understood, and a gentle smile that said “I get it.” We found the strength we needed to get up and keep moving.